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An ‘O’ to Remember – My top choices for self pleasure on Valentines Day.

There will be TONS of articles and blog posts about how to make Valentines Day with your honey more fun, but what about those people who don’t have a partner, don’t want a partner, or who has a partner who isn’t a sexual person? Here is a list of pleasure products to try for the ultimate self pleasure experience.

For the Full Pleasure Experience

Before any marathon, you need to warm up. If you’re doing it alone, you’ll need to help things along to make the whole experience more magical. That’s where The Butters Lubes come in. My personal favorites are the AloexShea and the Palm Grease. You’ll get so much bang for your buck with these lubes, plus you’ll get off knowing that you’re supporting a small, black-owned business.

Read my review HERE

Buy the Butters Palm Grease HERE and the Butter AloexShea HERE use the code RAVEN10 for 10% off your order!

For the Inevitable Mess

Body and Bed

During your self love making, you’re bound to make a mess. The bed, or any surface you’re laying/sitting on, will probably take the brunt of that. If you want to avoid doing a ton of laundry, or sitting with hair dryers pointed at the wet spots you’ve created for hours, I’d suggest getting yourself a No More Wet Spot Waterproof Blanket.

Read my NMWS Blanket review HERE

Buy the NMWS Blanket HERE use the code RAVEN for 5% off!

Toys

When you spend hours playing with toys, you’re going to want to make sure they are really clean before (and after to prevent bacterial growth) putting them in, or around, your body’s most sensitive areas. My ABSOLUTE favorite toy cleaner is the Intimate Earth Foaming Toy Cleaner. Using this toy cleaner, you’ll have the peace of mind knowing that you’re know using harsh chemicals on your most prized possessions.

Read my Intimate Earth Cleaner review HERE

Buy the Intimate Earth Cleaner HERE use the code RAVENTHEALIEN10 for 10% off!

For the Sweet Sweet Stimulation

External

For the perfect external stimulation, why mess with the classics? The Blush Sweet Cream Vibe is the best toy (IMO) for a long night of self love. It’s powerful and won’t disappoint you.

Read my Blush Sweet Cream Vibe review HERE

Buy the Blush Sweet Cream Vibe HERE

Internal

Internal stimulation is VERY personal, but for me, the No More Wet Spot Double G Pop is the ultimate toy. It’s simple, beautiful, multipurpose, and a great toy for self discovery, as well as self pleasure.

Read my NMWS Double G Pop review HERE

Buy the NMSW Double G Pop HERE and use the code RAVEN for 5% off!

Duel

For me, this toy is quite literally the Perfect Match for any person. Before this toy, I had never had an g-spot orgasm. The size, shape, and flexibility of this toy makes it the perfect dual stimulation product for ANY body.

Read my Sweet Vibrations Perfect Match review HERE

Buy the Sweet Vibrations Perfect Match HERE use the code RAVEN for 10% off!

For the Booty Love

Beginner

If you’re interested in making your booty sparkle this year, I highly suggest the Luxe Bling Plug Set by Blush Novelties. The gradual sizes makes booty play so comfortable and the soft silicone (plus a generous dollop of lube!) makes things feel amazing. The addition of the heart shaped gems at the end of each plug is just a bonus and themed perfectly for this holiday.

Read my Luxe Bling Plugs review HERE

Buy the Luxe Bling Plugs HERE use the code RAVENTHEALIEN10 for 10% off!

Experienced

If you’re looking to up your booty game, the B-vibe Rimming Plug Petite is where it’s at. There’s vibrations, and beads, and patterns, oh my! You’ll definitely have the time of your life playing with this toy, and your peach will thank you!

Read my B-Vibe Rimming Plug Petite review HERE

Buy the B-Vibe Rimming Plug Petite HERE use the code RAVENTHEALIEN10 for 10% off!

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Zumio S

The Zumio S is like the younger sibling of the Zumio E and X. It’s much less intense, much more rumbly, and the larger silicone tip makes this lady’s clit VERY happy. This review is literally going to be short and sweet. I have absolutely no negatives about it.

The Zumio S is very similar to the E and the X. The travel cap and the base are made of ABS plastic, the mid section is made of a body safe silicone, and this Zumio has a short, flexible silicone stem. This version has the circular rotation tip movements, like the X. It is fully submersible due to the fact that it has a wireless charger. It takes approximately 2 hours to full charge and it lasts for ages. Use that time to test the 8 intensity patterns to see what works for you.

I love this toy so so much. Like I mentioned at the beginning, I have absolutely no negatives to say about the S. It’s quiet, it has a thick stem, the battery life is wonderful, and gets me off. That last detail is the part I love the most. Anything that gets me off with an orgasm that I actually enjoy is a winner in my book.

I would highly recommend the Zumio S to anyone who is interested in pinpoint stimulation toys and who are interested in Zumio. It’s a great starter toy from them because it’s not too intense and give you a great idea of what kinds of stimulation you love. The Zumio S is definitely my favorite Zumio product (so far…).


You can get the Zumio S right HERE 


I was sent the Zumio S for free from Zumio in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!

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Tailz Pink Bunny Tail Vibrating Anal Plug

This plug is SO much fun! It’s adorable and super powerful. This plug is perfect for all forms of anal play: vanilla, pet play, etc. I am so thrilled to have this in my collection. Might not use it all that often since the size is really intimidating, but it’s definitely a conversation starter!

The Tailz Plug is made of body safe silicone and the bunny poof is made of synthetic fibers. It is splash proof but not submersible, so you can wash it thoroughly but it’s not wise to use this for water play. It is rechargeable via usb plug with a charge time of 60 minutes. You can get up to 90 minutes of play per charge depending on the vibration levels. Plus it comes with a really nice remote so once it’s in, either you or your partner can play with the 3 speeds and 7 patterns.

Unfortunately, the thing that makes this toy so adorable is also one of the biggest negatives. While the tail is adorable, it’s kind of a pain in the ass (pun intended). The power button and the jack are both located almost directly underneath the poof ball. When you go to charge it it’s almost impossible not to get some of the fibers stuck in the plug, which makes me super paranoid.

The good definitely outweighs the bad with this toy. I am a huge fan of the shape of the base since it sits perfectly between my cheeks and doesn’t put any pressure against them. It’s very comfortable. Plus the velvety softness of the silicone makes it a very gentle experience when slipping it in (even if the widest part gets a bit rough). The remote is amazing and works so well, even with the toy inside a body. Plus, the remote controls everything from speed to vibration modes and the buttons are nicely labeled for minimal confusion.

Overall, I would absolutely recommend the Tailz Anal Plug. The tail is adorable (while not totally functional), the materials are extremely high quality, and the size is excellent for those wanting to expand their anal training. Plus its super fun to use with a partner and extra fun if you wanna feel like an adorable little bunny for a little while.


You can get the Tailz Pink Bunny Tail Vibrating Anal Plug right HERE , plus get 10% off using the code PINKSPACELIME


I was sent the Tailz Pink Bunny Tail Vibrating Anal Plug for free by Naughty Betty’s in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!

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We-Vibe Tango

The We-Vibe Tango is a toy that I have wanted to try for a long time. I was in the group of people who got their start with sex toys by buying cheap bullet vibes and ever since I have gotten into the sex industry, I have been trying to find a toy that recreates the enjoyment I got out of those. This is it. It has the power of the classic corded bullets with the upgraded technology of We-Vibe.

The Tango is made from body safe ABS plastic and is rechargeable via magnetic USB (with its own charging cap!). Each charge takes approximately 90 minutes and you get a whole 120 minutes on a single charge. Plus, it’s completely waterproof so you can enjoy all 8 vibration modes in any situation.

Out of all the ‘discreet’ type toys that I have tried, this one has quickly become my favorite. It’s super quiet and the design of it makes it super easy to use. The flat side is amazing for holding in place, flat against your body and the finer point makes it feel great for precision stimulation.

Unfortunately, with most small toys, my biggest complaint is, in fact, the size. Plus the fact that it gets a little bit slippery to hold once the juices start flowing makes it slightly frustrating. A design suggestion I might make for this higher end toy would be to have a better grip and maybe make a slightly larger version of it.

I HIGHLY recommend this toy overall. It’s absolutely perfect for a small nightstand toy. It’s so powerful but also very quiet. I definitely will recommend this to anyone who is looking for a small, rechargeable toy that is body safe and higher quality.


You can get this product right HERE and just search for ‘Tango’. Use PINKSPACELIME to receive $10 off your first order and free shipping on orders over $75!


I was sent the We-Vibe Tango for free by MedAmour in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!

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CalExotics Rechargeable Massager Kit

There is a little bit of information I should share before getting started. I’d never had a wand, Magic or otherwise. My first experiences with sex toys were usually vibrator/bullet related. I grew up thinking that masturbation was silly and gross, so every time I walked into a Sharper Image and saw the ‘personal body massagers’ my first instinct was to giggle. Now, at almost 30 years old, this is my first wand (even thought its travel sized). After using this little guy I am really excited to try the ‘real thing’.

The interchangeable heads are made of body safe silicone, the body is made of phthalate free ABS plastic, and it is waterproof! The USB charging plug goes into a resealable charge hole and each 50 minute charge lasts 2.5 hours. There are 3 vibration modes ranging from ‘That’s Nice’ to ‘Hoooolyyyy Shiiiit!’. It has a flexible neck and it is 4 inches long, 1 inch wide, and the heads are anywhere from 1 to 2.25 inches.

There are 3 interchangeable heads. There is a ‘teasing nub tip’, a textured, tongue type thing, and rabbit. Each one is made of a silky smooth silicone. They are all super flexible and it is really easy to change each one. Plus, the basic, hard plastic head is also really fun to play with, so its like you are getting a bonus. There are pros and cons of each but I will tell you all about them in order of my favorites.

When I used this product, I used a water based lube for all uses, including use with the non silicone tip. That way I was safe from contamination if I decided to change heads mid sesh. Like I mentioned in my Uberlube post, if you need to use a silicone lube, always check the lube on a small spot on the toy before use, and wash it really well. If there are any changes to that spot, said toy is not compatible with that lube.

The first time I used it, I used it without any of the silicon heads. I just used the hard plastic tip, and it was really lovely. Perfect for a good ol’ clit smoosh. Got me off just fine. Something that is really nice about this little thing is that it’s not too complicated. There is only one button. You hold it down for 3 seconds to turn it on, and 3 seconds to turn it off. There aren’t any crazy vibration patterns, it simply has 3 different vibe speeds. That’s it.

I really don’t have any cons except maybe the size, which will be a pattern in this review. My biggest issue with these smaller toys is that the nice feeling bits are usually very precise. It can sometimes be difficult to keep it where I want it, especially at the higher vibration speeds, and when using a nice, slick lube. Also, the flexi head makes it a little tricky to keep pressure on spots because the more you press, the more it flexes.

The textured nub tip was really nice too. I used this one solo and with my partner. My partner had a fun time with the amount of squirming I did because of the textured bumps. Using it solo I had it positioned against my clit right on the edge of the flat side and the top. Doing it that way made the dots really focused and it was a wonderful feeling.

Again, the only negative was the size. This one didn’t have as bad of an issue as the next 2 because the silicone head made its width a bit larger than the rest. The wiggliness of the head still made it hard to find the perfect spot. I found myself concentrating too hard on the toy rather than the feeling that it gave me.

The tongue one was ok, but only once I found the spot I liked. It took me a long time to find it. It’s nice because it has 2 sides, smooth, and textured. The smooth side didn’t do much for me, but I know everyone has different tastes. I did get off, eventually, but I had to go to my tried and true ‘get off’ position of face down, ass up. This always seems to work.

The negatives are similar to above but a bit more extreme. Because the tongue flap is so bendy, it was hard to find a spot to hit that it didn’t just vibe away from being slippery from the lube. I have mentioned this before and I’ll mention it again, I love me a rumbly, extra firm, vibe. This head was neither. It was more of a flicking or buzzing sensation unless I pressed down really hard. If you have the patience, I would recommend using just the wiggly tip against your body. It’s a very light sensation, but, especially with a partner, it’s probably the best method of use.

Now, the bunny. This one will be hard to come up with positive for. I have never had a rabbit, so I did not know what to expect. What I learned was it was not my cup of tea. With a partner it was nice for foreplay and it got my clit crazy sensitive, but we had to eventually move on because I just got a bit bored. This head is definitely more of a tease toy. It’s great on the nipples and to run against the sensitive bits of your body, but I never got off with it, and I am not sure I ever will.

The major negatives about this head was that it was way too…exact. The only way it worked for me solo was really quick motions, which was hard to keep up with. It seemed like once I found a nice spot, I would jerk it a couple times then it would slip away.

In the end, would I recommend this, yes. It is great for use with a partner and fun for discreet play. Solo use is a little tricky, but I wouldn’t let that stop you because the vibration are really nice. I would definitely love to get my hands on a proper rabbit vibrator and a ‘real deal’ Magic Wand after using this. Like wands, rabbits are usually the go to for beginners, and I feel like I have missed out.

You can find this little guy HERE


I purchased this product with my own funds. If you wish to help me purchase more products to review head to my ‘Goodies‘ page. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!

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Uberlube!

Uberlube is very, very fun! I finally got a sample from Lovers the other day I just couldn’t wait to try it. I have heard so many amazing reviews about this stuff, and they are all SPOT ON. This product is not just for sex, oh no. This is a multi purpose serum and it is magical.

Uberlube is 100% vegan, cruelty free, with no parabens, gluten, glycerin, flavors, or scents. It is made up of Dimethicone, Dimethiconol, Cyclomethicone, and Tocopheryl Acetate (aka Vitamin E). An awesome bonus is that it is registered medical quality.

Uberlube’s intended uses are for sex (obviously), sport, and style. What?! Sport and style?? How do I use this for those things?? Keep reading to find out!

Uberlube is silicone based, so use with toys is tricky, but not impossible. Silicone toys can have a bad interaction with silicone based lubes and can start breaking down. You can test how your toy will react by doing a test swatch. Put the lube on a very small area of your toy, leave it for a couple minutes, then wash it off really good. After you wash it off, if your toy has any discolorations, odd textures, or is sticky, don’t use that lube with that particular toy.

This stuff is amazing. It is like the ‘Energizer Bunny’ of lubes. It keeps going, and going, and going, and going, and…well you get the picture. The consistency of this lube is wonderful. It’s not sticky at all, but it’s also not too runny (see pictures below). If we continue on the path of metaphors, one might call the it, the ‘Goldilocks’ of the lube world…*wink*

Uberlube is great for sex in any capacity. The first thing that I tried was some old school finger masturbation. Using this lube was mind blowing to say the least. I think I had the quickest, most powerful orgasm I’d had in months, if not years. The goal of Uberlube is reduce friction, not sensation. That is exactly what it did. Good Goddess this stuff is fucking brilliant. I am hoping to try it on some non silicone toys in the near future, so stay tuned!

The next thing to be tried using Uberlube was penetration, of all kinds. Whatever type of penetration you enjoy, be it fingers or penis into a vagina or butt, you will LOVE this stuff. My partner and I had the best anal sex we’d had in a while. This stuff doesn’t give up and you feel everything! It is wonderful. Like I said before, I haven’t tried this with any toys, but I’m under the assumption that use of this lube with any said toy will be extremely pleasurable. No matter what, though, always try all your lubes on your toys before use, just to be safe.

Also, for those of you that practice safe sex with condoms, first, good for you, second, this lube is condom friendly. Since this is an silicon based lube, it is perfect for use with all latex and polyisoprene condoms. The only condoms I would worry about is polyurethane, although I’m not to sure many brands use that material anymore. Side note: If you use oil based lubes, those are NOT latex friendly.

Like I mentioned in the beginning of this post, Uberlube is wonderful for more than just sex. This stuff works wonders for sports, all types of athletic activity, or just everyday wear. It is water proof, sweat proof, and it lasts for hours. Rub it on your thighs, or anywhere, for chafe protection, or for a dash of moisture with the vitamin E. The best part is that it doesn’t leave you feeling greasy and it will eventually dissolve so you’re not left with a gross residue. As a plus sized woman, this stuff is a lifesaver for my chub rub!

Now for the fun and unexpected part, using Uberlube for ‘Style’. When I read that salons, and other people, use Uberlube for their hair, I was very skeptical, until I used it. Let me tell you, this stuff is amazing! My hair is fried from years of bleaching and box dying, but with just a couple of drops, none of that mattered. My hair was left soft and frizz free. Also, since Uberlube is oil free, your hair doesn’t feel nasty or heavy.

Uberlube comes in 15ml refillable cases, which is perfect for travelling. You can also get it in 100ml and 50ml. Whatever you use it for, or wherever you need to bring it, you’ll be sure to find what you need. Plus, the glass bottle looks really nice and sleek.

If you want to buy Uberlube go to your nearest sex shop, seriously. This shit is everywhere. But, if you do your shopping online, check out these stores:

Get it HERE and use code PINKSPACELIME to get $10 off your first $50 order PLUS free shipping on orders over $55


I purchased this product with my own funds. If you wish to help me purchase more products to review head to my ‘Goodies‘ page. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!

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Trusty Vibe (Blush Novelties B Yours – My First Bullet, Silver/Black)

I want to tell you about Blush Novelties B Yours – My First Bullet, Silver Power Bullet. First off, I really hate the name ‘bullet’ for anything, especially something that goes near my body. What they should call this thing is “Holy Fucking Shit Orgasm Pod”…or something.

My First Bullet is made of phthalate free ABS plastic, so it is slightly porous but it is non toxic. It has a 3 foot wire going to the battery pack, which takes 2 AAs. Having it wired, means there is more power than a one touch bullet or vibe. It is waterproof, so you can use it externally, or internally, and during water play.

The vibe has an adjustable dial that controls the speed of the vibrations, and let me tell you, this is not for sensitive people. It starts with a bang and only gets more intense. There is no ‘gentle’ setting on this beauty. It’s goal is to get you off, and oh wow does it!

The chrome vibe (egg, bullet, whatever you want to call it), is about 2 inches long and 1 inch wide. This thing is FUN. I have never not had a great time. I am a huge fan of vibes that just smash down on my clit. This does that plus some. The slick material makes it really fun to use with lube, and a really neat thing to do is to experiment with temperature. You can make the vibe hot or cold, and the sensation is WONDERFUL.

For masturbation, I love to get my grind on. I either put the vibe on a surface, pillow, etc and rub, or I’ll wedge it in my labia and wiggle my pelvis around. Something fun to do is once you have the vibe in place, take the remote and start pulsing the vibration strength by using the dial. Great stuff! Honestly, though, there aren’t many way NOT to get off with this vibe.

This baby is great for any gendered oral as well. You can use it on the base of a penis while you’re going to town, run it all around to tease it, be creative. For those with a vulva, your partner can use this internally, or just to tease your sensitive bits while they’re lickin the bean.

For use during sex, I like to hold it against my clit and run it against my partners penis during penetration. You can also use it internally, that way it also hits the head of the penis, which is really fun. It’s also great for grinding against your partner too. I imagine this would be a fun little toy to use for two vulva having partners. The great thing about this is you, or your partner, can use this on your entire body. I’m a huge fan of using it on my nipples during foreplay.

I’ve had this thing for at LEAST 3 years and it’s my second egg/bullet vibrator. I love how powerful it is. You also can’t beat the price. Cheap bullets cost around $8-$10 and nicer bullets will run you upwards of $50. I think I got this beauty for around $12. The fact that it has seen an inhumane amount of use in 3 years, and it’s still kicking, says a lot about its quality. This type of vibe will never not be in my collection of toys.

If you want to find your perfect bullet vibrator, head over to my ‘Goodies’ page and check out all the amazing shops and brands!


I purchased this product with my own funds. If you wish to help me purchase more products to review head to my ‘Goodies‘ page. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!

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Good Clean Love Almost Naked Organic Lubricant (18+)

Good Clean Love Almost Naked Organic Personal Lubricant is only the third or fourth lubricant that I have tried in my life, but it is by far my favorite. It feels great, smells amazing, and tastes like candy. I will be going over my experience and some pros and (almost no) cons.

When I went to the store to look for my next lube, I had no idea what I was looking for. I thought I would just pick up some trusty AstroGlide, or something similar that I had tried in the past, but recently, my household has become more organic and natural, so when I saw the bright green tube, it definitely caught my eye. Low and behold, a clean sex product! I was thrilled. I read all the ingredients, looked up some reviews online, and threw it in my basket.

As soon as I got home, I opened it up. Now, I’m used to chemical lubes that are mostly clear, so when I squeezed some out to inspect, I was startled to see that it had a brownish hue. This is because of the organic, non-decolorized aloe. A lot of company take the color out, but Good Clean Love wants to make sure you are getting the most natural product you can.*

Color example

Besides the color, the first thing I noticed was the smell. It wasn’t too strong, but it was wonderfully sweet. I had never experienced that in a lube before (unless you count the various fake fruit flavored kinds that one usually receives as a gag gift). Me being curious I took a taste. It was amazing. Don’t judge me too hard. I knew, before eating it, that it was 100% edible, flavored with lemon and vanilla (and vegan/cruelty free…BONUS!).

After the first use, I was hooked. It felt great going on, while in use it was long lasting, and the sensitive tissue, in and around my vagina, wasn’t irritated! Whenever I would use chemical lubes, too much friction or penetration would almost cause my nether bits to start burning. That’s never a sexy feeling.

The only negative that I can give this product, is that if it’s exposed to air for too long, it has a tendency to dry out quickly. Not so fun when you’re giving your (penis having) partner and handy. Fortunately, there was a super easy fix: water. As soon as I got my hand wet, the lube was brought back to life with extra vigor. This make me believe that use in the shower will be extra fun. Also, this lube doesn’t wash off very easily with just water, so you could have loads of fun.

This was the first lube that I have ever wanted to use. Usually lube is just a necessity for toys or abnormally dry stints, but this one was going to be a staple in my everyday sex life. It made me feel like a woman down there, and an added benefit of this product is that it actually works with your body to naturally product lubrication. After one use, I noticed that I wasn’t dry as often as I was before.

I highly recommend this product! If you don’t want to buy the large amount to start, most sexual wellness shops have the sample/travel sizes available.

Pick the 4oz bottle up at SheVibe HERE, on sale for $13.99!

Get it HERE and use code PINKSPACELIME to get $10 off your first $50 order PLUS free shipping on orders over $75


I purchased this product with my own funds. If you wish to help me purchase more products to review head to my ‘Goodies’ page. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!


*I was contacted by Good Clean Love and given the right information. Before, I couldn’t find any place that explained the color, but I knew xanthan gum has a gold hue, so I originally stated that being the reason. They sent me a very nice message and explained exactly why their product is a light brown color, and I have updated this review accordingly.