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An ‘O’ to Remember – My top choices for self pleasure on Valentines Day.

There will be TONS of articles and blog posts about how to make Valentines Day with your honey more fun, but what about those people who don’t have a partner, don’t want a partner, or who has a partner who isn’t a sexual person? Here is a list of pleasure products to try for the ultimate self pleasure experience.

For the Full Pleasure Experience

Before any marathon, you need to warm up. If you’re doing it alone, you’ll need to help things along to make the whole experience more magical. That’s where The Butters Lubes come in. My personal favorites are the AloexShea and the Palm Grease. You’ll get so much bang for your buck with these lubes, plus you’ll get off knowing that you’re supporting a small, black-owned business.

Read my review HERE

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For the Inevitable Mess

Body and Bed

During your self love making, you’re bound to make a mess. The bed, or any surface you’re laying/sitting on, will probably take the brunt of that. If you want to avoid doing a ton of laundry, or sitting with hair dryers pointed at the wet spots you’ve created for hours, I’d suggest getting yourself a No More Wet Spot Waterproof Blanket.

Read my NMWS Blanket review HERE

Buy the NMWS Blanket HERE use the code RAVEN for 5% off!

Toys

When you spend hours playing with toys, you’re going to want to make sure they are really clean before (and after to prevent bacterial growth) putting them in, or around, your body’s most sensitive areas. My ABSOLUTE favorite toy cleaner is the Intimate Earth Foaming Toy Cleaner. Using this toy cleaner, you’ll have the peace of mind knowing that you’re know using harsh chemicals on your most prized possessions.

Read my Intimate Earth Cleaner review HERE

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For the Sweet Sweet Stimulation

External

For the perfect external stimulation, why mess with the classics? The Blush Sweet Cream Vibe is the best toy (IMO) for a long night of self love. It’s powerful and won’t disappoint you.

Read my Blush Sweet Cream Vibe review HERE

Buy the Blush Sweet Cream Vibe HERE

Internal

Internal stimulation is VERY personal, but for me, the No More Wet Spot Double G Pop is the ultimate toy. It’s simple, beautiful, multipurpose, and a great toy for self discovery, as well as self pleasure.

Read my NMWS Double G Pop review HERE

Buy the NMSW Double G Pop HERE and use the code RAVEN for 5% off!

Duel

For me, this toy is quite literally the Perfect Match for any person. Before this toy, I had never had an g-spot orgasm. The size, shape, and flexibility of this toy makes it the perfect dual stimulation product for ANY body.

Read my Sweet Vibrations Perfect Match review HERE

Buy the Sweet Vibrations Perfect Match HERE use the code RAVEN for 10% off!

For the Booty Love

Beginner

If you’re interested in making your booty sparkle this year, I highly suggest the Luxe Bling Plug Set by Blush Novelties. The gradual sizes makes booty play so comfortable and the soft silicone (plus a generous dollop of lube!) makes things feel amazing. The addition of the heart shaped gems at the end of each plug is just a bonus and themed perfectly for this holiday.

Read my Luxe Bling Plugs review HERE

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Experienced

If you’re looking to up your booty game, the B-vibe Rimming Plug Petite is where it’s at. There’s vibrations, and beads, and patterns, oh my! You’ll definitely have the time of your life playing with this toy, and your peach will thank you!

Read my B-Vibe Rimming Plug Petite review HERE

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No More Wet Spot Double G Pop

I first discovered No More Wet Spot through my blogger friends and wow o wow am I happy I did. I started by reviewing the original Waterproof Blanket, which you can read here. But eventually my curiosity got the best of me and I reached out to review the Double G Pop. It was the best decision I’ve made during this job.

The Double G Pop itself isn’t all the impressive looking. It’s beautiful, don’t get me wrong, but if taken literally, it’s a metal bar with two acrylic balls on the ends. That’s it. But don’t let that fool you. This is a tool that EVERYONE who is interested in self pleasure and body exploration should have.

The Double G Pop was invented to help you discover and stimulate the erectile tissue on the g-spot. Once aroused, you’ll actually be able to use the Double G Pop to gently stroke the g-spot, helping to figure out what type of pressure you enjoy. When you orgasm, the kegel muscles will clamp around the hard acrylic, making the experience very enjoyable.

One of the main reasons why I dislike a lot of internal toys is because of my body shape. I’m a fat creature (and fucking proud!), so the direction I have to insert internal toys and use them, I end up irritating my urethra. That’s never a pleasant experience. I immediately loved this toy because the middle bar is so thin (yet sturdy), so the opening of my vagina isn’t being squished and rubbed.

I enjoyed experimenting with both hand held, manual stimulation, and using it as a sedentary toy along side a clitoral vibe, making the bar vibrate internally. In this case, thick thighs made everything wonderful as I was able to hold the Double G Pop between them and rotate my hips to get the full g-spot stroke effect. Before I inserted it though, I did some labia and clitoral massaging, which was very pleasant because of the smoothness and first cool touch of the acrylic ball.

When I removed the Double G Pop it made a literal ‘pop’ as it came out of my (now swollen from orgasm) vagina, which really made me giggle. Any toy that can pleasure me and make me laugh is perfect in my book.

There’s no negative to the Double G Pop. It’s the perfect length, there are 2 separate and differently sized sides, it’s easy to use for all bodies, fun to use alongside other toys, it’s pretty spectacular. Why aren’t you here buying one yet??


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I was sent the Double G Pop for free from No More Wet Spot in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!

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Vibease Ruby

The Vibease Ruby is, interesting. There are many toys that have this similar ‘tickler’ design, but the Ruby had been fully designed beautifully. It’s a gorgeous piece to look at, but that’s about where the praise stops.

The Ruby is made of a silky smooth silicone. The main body of the toy is firmer while the 2 silicone ear pieces are more flexible and squishy. The base of the toy is chiseled to be similar to that of a gem, or ruby (hence the name), which makes the whole toy easy to hold onto.

While in use, the ears are actually quite disappointing. Yes they flutter and buzz as expected, but for something that goes against the delicate skin of the labia, they aren’t as soft as they should be. The tips are very nice as pinpoint stimulation against the clitoris and the nipples, but accidentally press too hard, or slip a bit, and you’ll find yourself getting jabbed in a not so pleasant manner.

You charge it via USB jack plug, which is located on the side of the toy, and the base flashes when charging. It takes about an hour to charge, but on a full charge, you can use it for up to 3 hours! From an outsiders perspective, that may seem amazing, but as soon as you turn it on and feel the hand numbing buzz, you can immediately tell why the battery life is so long.

For a toy that’s almost $70, I’d definitely expect a better motor. The motor within this toy is similar to your run of the mill bullet, which is much cheaper, and will give you the same results. You could even spend about $10 and get something like the Tango, which has an incredible motor, and won’t make your clit numb. However, the motor in the Ruby does make the pinpoint stimulation quite nice. I wouldn’t scoff at someone using this toy on me for some serious foreplay.

The various patterns are actually pretty nice. If the toy had a better motor, I would definitely say that these are some of my favorite vibration patterns I’ve experienced. There are a grand total of 7 options, 3 of which are just different intensities. You to cycle through them by pressing the very small, and difficult to feel, power button (shown in the first image).

Some of the things that you can do with this toy, besides using the quivering ears, is using it just like a regular ol’ bullet. If you turn it on it’s side, with the ears pressed together against your body, you can use the end of the base (where the motor is).

While this toy isn’t something I would recommend for someone who enjoys rumble vibes, I would have to say that it is quite versatile. Unfortunately, the motor quality does not line up with the price point of a toy like this, but it’s still a good option for a body safe, rechargeable, beautifully designed, toy.


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Bestvibe Yuanse Inflatable Expansion Vibrator

The Bestvibe Inflatable Vibrator is a very unique toy. I actually had quite a bit of trouble figuring it out, but after some experimenting, I got it working. I had never had any experience with inflatable toys, so being able to try one that looks like a swan made it so much fun!

The Inflatable Vibrator is made of body safe silicone and the small details are made of ABS plastic. It is rechargeable via USB plug and a full charge takes up to 2 hours. With that charge you can get up to 90 minutes depending on modes. The whole toy is waterproof (but not submersible) so you can enjoy it in the shower and you can wash it thoroughly. Plus there are 7 vibrations modes with variable expansion settings so it will always be a fun experience.

When I first tried this toy I used it for my g-spot. While the vibrations were nice, the inflatable end didn’t really do much for me. The large base is really awkward to hold inside myself and the shape of the toy doesn’t really allow for adequate movement. I also tried the toy anally and that worked so much better. The inflation felt VERY nice and holding onto the base in this position was much easier.

Overall, this is a take it or leave it type of toy. There’s nothing really mind blowing about it vaginally, but anally it’s pretty wonderful. The quality isn’t the best, as the vibrating bead at the head tends to slip a bit during inflation, but for the price, it’s decent. Like I said before, this is definitely an interesting and unique toy, so, if anything, it’ll be a cool piece to have in your collection.


I was sent the Yuanse Inflatable Expansion Vibrator for free by Bestvibe in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!

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We-Vibe Tango

The We-Vibe Tango is a toy that I have wanted to try for a long time. I was in the group of people who got their start with sex toys by buying cheap bullet vibes and ever since I have gotten into the sex industry, I have been trying to find a toy that recreates the enjoyment I got out of those. This is it. It has the power of the classic corded bullets with the upgraded technology of We-Vibe.

The Tango is made from body safe ABS plastic and is rechargeable via magnetic USB (with its own charging cap!). Each charge takes approximately 90 minutes and you get a whole 120 minutes on a single charge. Plus, it’s completely waterproof so you can enjoy all 8 vibration modes in any situation.

Out of all the ‘discreet’ type toys that I have tried, this one has quickly become my favorite. It’s super quiet and the design of it makes it super easy to use. The flat side is amazing for holding in place, flat against your body and the finer point makes it feel great for precision stimulation.

Unfortunately, with most small toys, my biggest complaint is, in fact, the size. Plus the fact that it gets a little bit slippery to hold once the juices start flowing makes it slightly frustrating. A design suggestion I might make for this higher end toy would be to have a better grip and maybe make a slightly larger version of it.

I HIGHLY recommend this toy overall. It’s absolutely perfect for a small nightstand toy. It’s so powerful but also very quiet. I definitely will recommend this to anyone who is looking for a small, rechargeable toy that is body safe and higher quality.


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Fun Factory Be-One Couples Vibrator

The Be-One Couples Vibrator is a small but mighty toy. It has 2 powerful motors and it fits easily between your fingers to create an endless amount of fun. I’m also a huge fan of any toy that isn’t too complicated to use and has a super cute carrying case.

The Be-One is made of body safe silicone and ABS plastic. It only has one button and that cycles through the 4 vibration speeds and the bonus ‘flirt’ setting, which is basically a randomizer. There are 2 small, but powerful, motors in the Be-One which is what makes this toy so fun. It is rechargeable via magnetic USB and 1 charge of 1 hour gives you an hour of play. There is also a handy dandy carrying case and a travel lock.

I did not have a good time with this toy, at all. I was so hopeful, but like a lot of small toys, it just missed the mark in being usable for all body types. As I have stated many times before, I have a larger labia, so fitting anything between it can be challenging. Even so, I’ve run into an annoying amount of toys that don’t work for a larger body type. Even if a larger body doesn’t have a bigger labia, they’ll have a belly, or more stuff to move around in general, and small toys like this really don’t seem to take that into consideration.

For me, the whole experience with using this toy was frustrating. The smaller silicone piece that can slip between your labia was just too dang short. To be able to get any sort of pressure or rhythm against my clit, I had to make sure I was spread as wide as possible, otherwise I was just sort of jiggling my bits. Due to this, I wasn’t quite able to enjoy the amazing motors. While using it on my nipples and other erogenous areas, I could definitely feel their quality, but where it really mattered for me, it fell short.

All that being said, I really do admire the design of the toy. Seeing toys that can be used for all genders is still a step in the right direction. While this toy didn’t work for me, I know it will work for a lot of other people. The Be-One really has no limitations for uses. You can use it for foreplay, blow jobs, nipple play, etc. You can be really creative with it. Also, this little thing is SUPER quiet so you can have so much fun, discreet play.

In the end, this toy really does not work for me simply because of my body type. However, I would definitely still recommend the Be-One because of its infinite uses and its amazing motors. Plus, with Fun Factory, you know you’re getting quality.


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Zumio X

The first time I used this toy, was awkward. For some reason the battery only lasted about 10 minutes. Luckily, after a second full charge, everything sorted itself out and my experience was much more…pleasurable. Plus, any toy that makes me cum twice, no matter how difficult, is solid in my book.

The Zumio X is made of ABS plastic and silicone. It has a usb charging base, which is so cool, because all you have to do is set the toy in the base and you’re good to go. Because of the non plug style charger, the Zumio X is 100% waterproof, so loads of fun times can be had in the bath, shower, etc. The Zumio does not vibrate, it rotates, using the SpiroTip rotation. This makes it so the sensation is never a dull buzz and you’ll never have an issue with handle vibration. This toy is also meant to be super intense and that it is. There are 8 rotation speeds and I was only able to tolerate the first…yikes.

This is probably one of the most intense toys I’ve ever tried, which is awesome, since that’s its goal. I love that the whole toy isn’t too big and it’s very easy to hold. The whole thing isn’t too complicated either. One button controls the power and the other 2 control the speeds, that’s it. There are no intricate patterns or weird extra buttons to push. When I used it the ‘real’ first time, I tried the 60 second orgasm method that they demonstrate in the instruction manual, and while it wasn’t 60 seconds, it was definitely quick and amazing.

Another really great thing about the Zumio X is the many uses. Yes, you can use this toy for a regular, solo, clitoral orgasm, but you can also use it for other forms of stimulation. When I tested it, I ran it all over my body to test its foreplay abilities. Oh my was it amazing. Using it on my nipples, lips, even over my thighs, it was like a whole solo foreplay session. Huge bonus. Plus, it’s also slim enough that you could use it during partnered play in between your bodies.

Unfortunately this is a toy that does not cater to all body types. Yes, it’s slim, nice to hold, and the buttons are easy to press, but that’s about it. My biggest issue with this version of the Zumio is that the tip was way too small for my clit size and the ABS plastic gets very slick. I have a decently large clit which swells and changes with arousal, and when I find a spot I love, I need to stay there. With this toy I found it difficult to keep it in a certain spot, because while it was hitting it, it would slip very easily and it was almost too precise, so I wasn’t getting surrounding stimulation.

If you enjoy pinpoint stimulation this is a wonderful toy. I am VERY excited to try the other version of the Zumio, specifically because of my body type. Otherwise, I really enjoy this toy. It has so many uses both partnered and solo, so you’ll definitely never get bored.


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VeDO Izzy

The VeDO Izzy is the perfect ‘budget’ clitoral vibe. Not only is VeDo an amazing brand but their motors are the strongest I’ve seen in a budget collection. It’s also one of the first vibes I’ve had where I didn’t have to smash it against my body, so color me impressed. This might just be my favorite go-to travel vibe.

The Izzy is made of a super smooth, body safe silicone. It is rechargeable via USB plug and it is completely submersible. There is a single power button which cycles through all 10 of the unique vibration modes and if you double press the button quickly, it turns on travel lock, so you’ll never have to worry about it buzzing in your luggage.

The shape of this thing is a little odd, but in a great way. It’s not what I expected upon looking at the box, but as soon as I held it for the first time, I understood why it was designed that way. The whole thing actually looks a little phallic, and in a way it kind of reminds me of the shape of my cat when she’s sitting down. The larger base with the power button and the charge port are shaped perfectly to fit in the palm of your hand, while the thinner vibration end is able to slip between your labial folds with ease.

Along the narrow end, there is a squishy silicone nub and it is fantastic! I really thought I wouldn’t like it, or it would just get in the way, but the way that this toy is designed made it extremely useful. The thing that I find most interesting about the Izzy is that it is rideable. This isn’t just your average bullet vibe. This is a toy that you can actually place on a surface, and the shape plus the added stimulation nub, makes it wonderful and easy to use for all body types.

As I’ve mentioned before, I’m not a huge fan of the variety of vibration patterns on most toys, but every once in a while I’ll come across one that I fall in love with. With the Izzy that pattern was the almost heartbeat like pulse. It allowed me to get into an amazing rhythm with my stroking and because it mimicked my heartbeat, my mind automatically associated the feeling with being aroused. It made it so easy to cum which is definitely a positive for me.

The thing that I really dislike is, surprisingly, the motor, or more specifically the design plus the motor. The motor is extremely strong. While usually this a wonderful thing, paired with a toy that is quite short, makes things tricky. Because the motor is so strong, you can feel it throughout the whole toy at full blast, so it made holding onto it for a long period of time, difficult. My fingers got very numb, but that made me all the more thankful that I could lay this sucker down and ride it’s mechanical brains out.

Overall, if you’re looking for a small, travel friendly vibe, I would definitely recommend this one. While it’s not the quietest toy I’ve ever used, it has many functions that can be enjoyed in different scenarios. A huge plus for those of you who like to have fun in unexpected places.


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Blush Novelties – W4 – Lily

The Blush W4 is an amazing wand for people who don’t know if they like wands. It’s super simple, super discreet, and a very pretty shade of pink. This toy is a wonderful thing to add to your collection if you’re looking for a cheaper, body safe alternative to other inexpensive options.

The W4 has a satin soft smooth silicone head and its handle is made of a silky ABS plastic. There are 10 vibration patterns and a single power button which you press to cycle through said patterns. It is USB rechargeable and it is splash proof so it’s super easy to clean. Also, the battery life is pretty awesome, lasting up to 2 hours depending on strength.

The wand has an extremely nice, flexible head. The whole thing is made out of a very squishy silicone, but it’s not too flexible which is really nice for people who like a little bit more pressure on their clitoris. Another thing that I really like about the design of the head is the fact that it is more narrow than a lot of other mini wands. That makes it really easy for people with larger labias, like myself, to be able to just pick it up, use it whenever, and not have to worry about sitting in the super uncomfortable position to enjoy it.

I will say, the wand is a bit weird to hold. Because it is made out of a hard ABS plastic it’s not super comfortable for longer sessions. Also, the power button is very easy to push, so if you have to hold it in any way where your finger might slip, you could end up changing the pattern mid climax and nobody wants that.

There’s not actually much I can say about this. It’s a really nice, really simple wand. For the price, it’s also surprisingly quiet. I think if you’re in the market for a wand, but you don’t know what you’re looking for specifically, this is a really great one to start with.


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Sweet Vibrations – tuLips

The Sweet Vibrations tuLips is one of the more unique toys I’ve experienced. On the outside, it just kind of looks like your average palm or clitoral vibe. This toy is so much more than that though. The design of it and the vibrations feel wonderful!

The tuLips is made of a silky smooth silicone. It’s not amazingly flexible but it is still flexible enough to feel good against your body. It is waterproof to an extent so washing it thoroughly and using it in the shower is perfectly fine. There are 5 speeds and 10 vibration patterns. The toy is rechargeable via usb prong and the charge lasts up to 2 hours!

This is an amazing partner vibe. It is slim enough that it can fit between two bodies and the ridges that surround the clit are also flexible, so any amount of friction won’t be painful, which is a plus. With the tiny silicone bump at the tip of the toy, the vibrations hit your whole clit with ease. It also works for different types of stimulation movement. I was able to stroke, flick, press, and anything else you can think of to do with your clit with this toy.

I will admit, I was a bit worried. These contoured vibes have a hard time with buzz distribution. Most of the time, the vibrations are felt all over the toy, usually making my hand go numb, and making the toy hard to hold on to once any lubrication is present. This one is actually really nice. The vibrations stay right where they need to be.

When I turned on the toy, I was also a bit worried about the type of vibrations. Just holding it, it seems like the vibrations are fairly buzzy, but once it’s against your body, they turn into a nice rumble. This, combined with the shape of the toy, made it super easy, both times I used it, to cum multiple times. Those of you who have followed my story know that’s fairly uncommon, so that is a HUGE bonus.

The one negative that I will say is that the location of the buttons is a bit frustrating. For me, when I was using the toy, I found that my hand naturally settled on the area with the buttons. This became a bit of an issue when things got really heated and I would end up pressing the buttons, changing the settings. Also, when you have a foggy head from arousal, the buttons can be a bit hard to figure out because they’re really close together.

I am in love with this company. Sure their toys have some issues, but the cost, quality, and customer service, is really hard to beat. Also, all the toys I’ve tried so far are super unique, which, in this day and age, is relatively uncommon. PLUS they have a forever warranty, so there’s really no reason not to give them a try.

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