I’m Back!

As you may or may not remember, I had a blog. That blog was called Pink Space Lime. I ended it, very shortly after I publicly came out as non-binary, for personal reasons. But no more! I’m back baby!! Stick around as I tell you all about what I’ve been up to and what is to cum.

How My Life Has Changed

Since the last time you saw me, I have come out as non-binary, my pronouns are they/them/it, and I now go by Raven. My new descriptor in all things has become ‘Your favorite queer, alien Goddexx’. The beginning of my new sexuality journey was rough, to say the least, but I had such an amazing support group from people that I have friended on social media. Slowly, I am coming into my own and rediscovering who I am.

In addition to becoming a more evolved being, I have also been diving hard into acceptance of my autism and disabilities. My life has the joys of PCOS, autism (a recent addition), and other bodily yuckiness. I’m navigating those issues all the time, but I’ve only recently stared being more vocal about them on social media and I hope to transfer that to here.

Over all, my life hasn’t changed all that much. I’m still the agoraphobic hermit I once was, except now, refusing to leave your house is a good thing(?)! I’m also always trying to relearn how love myself more and more each day, while constantly trying to not overwhelm myself with the pressures of social media and capitalism…

What Am I Doing With My Life?

No that is not (entirely) an existential question. I’m actually doing stuff with my life now…at 30…after dealing with major mental and health trauma. Yay me…

Portrait Illustration of @fattyabaddie

Drawing is usually taking up a lot of my time. I draw a lot when I’m stressed, which, in this dumpster fire of a world, is often. Making pretty things has always been my go to serotonin boost. Plus, the fact that I’m constantly drawing gorgeous and inspirational babes makes it that much more enjoyable.

Photography Portrait of anonymous

Photography has always been part of my creativity, but recently I’ve been reconnecting with it. I started by finally upgrading my equipment and taking some intro portraits of a friend. I love it so much. I know Covid is a real bitch right now, but I hope to continue with more people in the future. Currently, y’all will just have to deal with seeing my pretty face all the time.

Major Blog/Website Changes

Obviously, the biggest change is that my blog is now called Raven the Alien. I wanted the blog to be more….more. My old stuff is VERY focused on accepting your body, sexuality, not being ashamed of loving pleasure, etc. While that will always remain a constant throughout this thing, there will be SO much more I cover.

One of the first huge changes I am making is expanding beyond sexuality. Like I just mentioned, I will never NOT be open and honest about sexuality, but the posts I have in mind move to other things in ones life to love and discuss. I have a few mental health pieces on the books as well as a review on a product that can be very helpful for stimming in autistics.

Something you’ll see a lot more is the dramatic move away from gendered products and discussions. From now on, the products I review (sex toys, clothes, etc) will all be inclusive to everyone, whether that be from a literal POV or from the ‘be open minded’ POV. I’m not sure there is a great way to really explain this in a single paragraph, so just stick around and see what I’m on about.

The Future

I am so excited to restart this journey. When I began it last time, it changed my life in ways I don’t think I can ever explain. Now that I am in a totally different headspace than I was originally, I’m extra psyched.

You can be sure that fun things are coming in the future. I have so many ideas tumbling around in my chaotic little brain. As you all know, I can’t just sit around with only a few projects, I must have ALL the stress. But for now, I hope you’ll stick around to read to stories I have to tell and learn about the products I have to share.

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Reece and Rose Liquid Silicone Vibe

The Reece and Rose Liquid Silicone Vibe will forever be known as the vibe that gave me 2 consecutive orgasms after a 10 day, 4 sexual encounters, and 3 masturbation sessions, dry spell. Now, I won’t go into details, but I cannot express enough how amazing this toy was for me. The vibrations are perfect, it’s not so big that you can’t wiggle it around a little bit, and it lasts a long time.

The vibe is made of a super soft, flexible silicone, that allows it to bend with your body. It is USB rechargeable and completely waterproof. The battery life is actually really great as well. It only takes about an hour to charge but lasts at least an hour. There are 3 vibration speeds and 10 vibration patterns. A huge plus is that it’s not insanely complicated to figure out. There’s one button to power it and the other cycles through the speeds and patterns.

The way that it’s shaped its also really nice. It’s not too curved like most g-spot toys. It has a very gradual curve. Plus, both sides are weighted fairly evenly so there’s not a super heavy side. The end that goes inside your body with the motor is also perfectly shaped. There aren’t any weird bumps or ridges that rub against the g-spot which, for me, can get really uncomfortable. There are little, tiny waves on the back to stimulate the other side of the vaginal wall. It’s so GREAT!

It it the first g-spot vibe that has actually done it for me. I had always thought and heard that firm toys against the g-spot are what does it. Not for me. When a toy is too firm, it ends up bumping against my urethra and starts to get it irritated. Because this one is super flexible, I can just thrust and it follows my curves naturally.

Another thing I loved is that it passed the ‘clench’ test. I am a hardcore clencher and I’ve been having a hard time finding a g-spot toy that doesn’t just immediately stop upon my extreme clenching. This toy keeps on buzzing away. The fact that I could clench my way to an orgasm made this one of my favorite g-spot toys.

ANOTHER thing I love about this toy is that since the motor and the shape pair up so nicely, you can 100% use this as a clitoral stimulation toy. If, at some point, you don’t feel like having your g-spot stimulated, turn this beauty on and go to town on your clit. It’s not so flexible that you can’t get any pressure against it and the silicone is thin enough that you can actually get a lovely rumble out of it.

The ONLY negative, as with most silicone toys, is when you have quite a bit of lubrication it gets tricky to keep a hold of. Because the silicone is so smooth and satiny, any added moisture to the handle turns it into one of those old water wiggler toys. It made it a little difficult to keep a rhythm by myself.

Other than that, I would HIGHLY recommend purchasing this toy for your collection. It’s so simple and easy to use. It has so many functions and, above all, its PRETTY. The teal color that Reece and Rose has picked for their first collection is beautiful. I am, however, hoping for more of a pastel color spectrum in the long run (hint hint).

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I was sent the Reece and Rose Liquid Silicone Vibe for free in exchange for my honest review. If you wish for me to review one or more of your products, contact me! I would love to hear from you!